In love, all the contradictions of existence merge themselves and are lost. Only in love are unity and duality not at variance. Love must be one and two at the same time"

-Rabindranath Tagore

The act of living without contradictions is love..............

Going from one moment to another is not only an exchange in terms of time but also an exchange in terms of emotions, your emotional state can change the very next moment without any disclaimer. You remain unaware of your feelings and the waves of emotions forming on the surface of your sanity, contradiction forms when your feelings didn't act according to your actions, ex: you can be laughing but you are feeling helpless from inside.

Living in contradictions from moment to moment is called duality, this duality can be seen everywhere today, somewhere people killing children to get relief from their old sins or somewhere people burning buses to prove how their religion is the best, from every other religion exists out there, All of these are examples of duality. The moment this duality drops, your ego disappears, then you don't have to decide anything, everything will come to you like a blessing. Just like a Lotus opening in a lake, like a beautiful melody, It doesn't have to force itself to open up, it just opens up to spread beauty around its surroundings.

When you end your duality, you started to experience life for the first time, the flowers started to shower in your way, and your life becomes a living festival, but we fear to accept that we are living in duality and start blaming the love itself, love becomes the ultimate enemy of our lives, we started to avoid it in every aspect of our lives, we stop loving animals, nature, books and even the fellow humans around us. Creating a deep valley of separateness between us and every other thing which can make us feel love.

Sure, loving anyone or anything is difficult, it's difficult to end your ego, it is difficult to end the separateness that exists between you and your Beloved, it is difficult to wait, it is difficult to understand the other individual, but it is love that is why it is difficult, don't believe in the Rossy stories and poems depicting love as a fairy tale, it's all fake romanticism, an invention of novel writers.

Love will feel you every emotion, but specifically 'pain' because pain is the mother of every change, have you ever seen any sports person becoming great without experiencing any pain, the answer is NO, the same case is with love, it will hit you later or sooner, it just a matter of time but when it hits you, it will hit you up, with waves of pain which will penetrate in your soul through your deepest wounds and end up transforming every part of your Ocean like soul, the pain that you will experience in love will appear as a 'change' in your life. It is the love of Socrates for critical thinking that came out as the pain, which made him accept the poison. It is the love of Krishna for Arjun which reflects as he motivates him to take up all the pain to fight on the battlefield, to stick with his karma.

Love Blooms On The Soil Of Pain, So That You Can Collect The Fruits Of This Flower In The Form Of 'Change'..... A change that will transform every aspect of your life.